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God help me, fediverse, we have got to stop being so pedantic.
In university, I got a degree in English. I expected lots of reading, lots of writing, and lots... https://anniemueller.com/posts/talk-about-the-thing-itself
@annie I was venting to my partner about this the other day, my frustrations about people sticking around on platforms hosted by what I perceive as basically fascists, and how they're part of the problem. And she said broadly the same thing. If you want people to do something else, you don't motivate them by telling them how awful what they are doing is. You motivate them by telling them what you enjoy about the alternatives.
@bammerlaan Yes... I think what that approach does is pile on shame, makes people feel inferior. Then even if they reach a point where they're curious/ready, they have this additional resistance of feeling that way to overcome.
Shame is such a powerful social tool and sometimes imo it's an appropriate tool to use but typically not, I think, in this case.